You Don't Meet Anyone by Chance!

You Don't Meet Anyone by Chance!

Carl Jung said: "Souls find and understand each other long before bodies meet."

It has been always difficult for me to understand - Why do all the people around me are not truthful, abandoned me when it came to choose me, or were emotionally closed off? I thought everyone is like that until I tried to understand it deeply.

It turns out that those we "accidentally" meet, those we "like them and fall in love," or those we inexplicably dislike don't just appear randomly. The universe chooses and sends the perfect actor to the stage to mirror whatever we suppress, ignore, or postpone healing in our inner world.

Accepting this was the biggest clarity in the face to my ego. Because those people I called "lessons" were actually the embodiment of my feelings of trust issues, my fear of abandonment, or my inability to set boundaries. Like a teacher, they were testing me on my weakest subject.

We think that our soul partners come to make us happy - to complete us. No. Some souls come to shake us up, awaken us from our slumber, and tear us away from our comfortable lies. The person who triggers you the most may actually be your greatest opportunity for transformation. Their job is to touch your wound and say, "Look, it's still bleeding. Now heal it."

When you learn that lesson, when you heal that wound within yourself, the scenario outside suddenly changes. Those people either attune to your new way of being and change, or they quietly and peacefully leave your life because their task is complete.

I often ask now, "What have you come to show me about myself?"

This perspective helps you reflect and break free from a self created stories and make choices to steer your life that feels aligned with the pure energy of your soul. 

The souls currently around you - the one who makes you wonder, "Why did I meet this person?" - might actually be revealing a truth you've been avoiding.